Tag: #parenting
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Why do children misbehave?
A misbehaving child is a discouraged child. Rudolf Dreikurs. We, as parents, teachers or adults always complain about the misbehavior of children, be it throwing tantrums, being aggressive, lying, answering back, bullying, attention-seeking, etc. We often don’t understand the reasons behind such behavior and therefore loose our cool as a response to any tantrum thrown…
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Concepts of Positive Discipline
Discipline is helping a child solve a problem; punishment is making a child suffer for having a problem. L.R. Knost In the last post, we discussed some of the major changes that happened in the society and influenced our as well as our children’s lives. In addition to this, one more important factor is the…
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A brief introduction to the changed scenario!!
The secret of change is to focus all of your energy not on fighting the old but on building the new!! Socrates Most of the times, we feel frustrated with our children for not being the “good kids” like the old days (which we think, we were during our childhood). I mean, did we dare…
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The ‘Positive Discipline’ Approach to Parenting
Children do better when they feel better! Jane Nelsen In the last post, I had discussed what exactly it means to learn parenting and why there is a need to learn parenting in this age. This post is in continuation to the same topic. As I am really interested in learning about the growth and…
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आपल्याला पालकत्व “शिकण्याची” खरोखर गरज आहे का??
स्वतःवर विश्वास ठेवणाऱ्या प्रत्येक मुलाच्या मागे एक पालक असतो ज्यांनी प्रथम त्यांच्या मुलावर विश्वास ठेवला असतो. अतिरेकी माहितीच्या या युगात जिथे आपण दररोज काय खावे, काय घालावे, कसे वागावे या सर्व गोष्टींबद्दल भरपूर माहितीचा सतत भडिमार होत असतो, तेथे त्या पैलूंबद्दल देखील आपण बहुतेकदा गोंधळलेले असतो जे अन्यथा आपल्याला खूप नैसर्गिक आणि क्षुल्लक वाटतात. पालकत्व…
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Do we really need to “learn” parenting??
Behind every child who believes in themselves is a parent who believed in them first!! In this age of information overload where we are everyday bombarded with lots of information about everything right from what to eat, what to wear, how to behave, so on and so forth, we are mostly confused about even those…
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पालकत्वाच्या विविध शैली आणि त्यांचे परिणाम!!
“मुलं कधीच त्यांच्या मोठ्याचं निमूटपणे ऐकण्यात चांगली नसतात, परंतु मोठ्यांचं अनुकरण करण्यात मात्र ती कधीच चुकत नाहीत!!” अमेरिकन लेखक आणि सामाजिक कार्यकर्ता जेम्स बाल्डविन यांनी या वाक्यात खरंतर पालकत्वाच्या प्रवासातले एक महत्वाचे पण दुर्लक्षिलेले सत्यचं विषद केले आहे!! दुर्लक्षित अशासाठी कारण, आपल्या लहानपणापासूनच आपल्यावर मोठयांनी ऐकण्याचे संस्कार केले असतात आणि कळत-नकळत सवयीने आपणसुद्धा पालक झाल्यावर…
